When I asked my girls to do some simple stuff around the house, they immediately started complaining: You are giving us so much to do; it’s so difficult; it will take us whole afternoon; we are having school holidays and you are making us work and so on and so on…. You know how that goes?
Annoyed with their complaining I asked: “Those are really simple tasks like taking the trash our, how long do you think it will take you to do them?”
And of course they answered: “It’s so much work! We will do these for the whole afternoon”.
I said: “OK, let’s see.”
Then I prepared a table with tasks and left some space for notes. When they start performing those little tasks, I measured time and as you might imagine they did everything in 15 minutes. But it was fun and because of that it was not so difficult to do.
So, next time you want something from your kids, make it a challenge:
- Measure how much time something will take them to do
- Make a competition – who will be first to finish the tasks
- Let them guess how much time will they need for the task and see how close they got
- Set a time goal and see if they can perform within the specified time frame
Just like the kids learn through play and the play is their job, it will be so much easier if you make their “job” a play. Let them do something at their own pace and even their own way. As long as it is done what do you care how it is done.
